We are brought up from young to respect the olds as they are wise and got much to teach us and they dediciated their life for the society already and its time they enjoy their life .... i used to believe that we shld respect all elderly ..till i met this Auntie from my workplace.... ironally her name Angeline "Sound angel eh" is a Devil from hell!!!
I know without you knowing this Auntie or proof of why she is a devil...let me put u in this situation.....
Imagine this...........
She work in this company for 15 long years... she have no friends except friendly wif 2 boss
No one eat with her during lunch
No one sit with her on the company bus when going/leaving work
No one respect her
When she wan something ... she will demand it to be done in a tone you will find it irriating and extremely demanding
She hide everything from everyone resulting in people unable to finish work because of her and she will say she dunno need to give out this information
She is a finance manager btw
Okie.. now u get the general idea on her i now bring u to this classic example ..
One week ago she requested a desktop to be purchase so her newly temp person can use when she get one ... i told her requistion of desktop will have to be discuss with kenneth my IT manager as he is abroad and i can help her setup a laptop for the temp person when she/he comes.... till now the person have not arrived * 1 week * ..on friday she requested again the desktop and i told her i will check the pricing this weekend during the IT Fair and i can let her use the laptop if its urgent and she decline again......then...today "monday" she find me again and she ask for the desktop ... so i told my IT Manager about it ..we both agree on this issue ... We got a laptop for her to use why she fucking still wanna get a desktop ..not as if the laptop is spoil or wad...and i really hate the tone she talk ....the demanding tone as if you owe her something and she hound u like a dog and will never let go till u do wad she say....
Back to my original post regarding elderly.....Do we really need to respect every elderly or some? If we scold an elderly who is arrogant and bad ..are we label a person who dun respect the elderly or are we right to scold them and reprimand them if they are in the wrong?
Some people told me even if the elderly are wrong we should still respect them - btw this is say by ppl above the age of 40s
Some people say .. scold the crap out of them and reprimand them for their way and if they still dun change i can label them as old and useless or mentally idotic - this is say by ppl below the age of 40s
So you can see different age gap have different point of view regarding this matters the older ppl tend to favour the elderly while the younger generation tend to be practical on this matters...
For me there's a limit on how we as the younger generation should tolerate them...if they really gone too far beyond their limit we have every right "even if we are whole lot younger then them" to reprimand them on their wrong doing .... "Just because ur an elderly we have to respect you" thinking is idiotic ..its an old tradition ...the "New" generation arent gonna care for this kind of tradition...we believe in rights and wrongs ..if u do right u r rewarded ... if u do wrong u r reprimand this should be the standard .however we can tolerate elderly if they pick up next things slow or take up longer time to learn something or move slowly but aside from that we should treat them as equals...
I guess i complain too much about this Angeline... but she is by far the first Auntie that make me so piss up in my 27 year of life... and i can confirm 9 out of 10 person who work with her will get piss by her......the temp girl who just recently join this company couldnt stand her after her 4th day here LOL...imagine the perm staff here :)
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