Thursday, May 3, 2012
Friday, January 6, 2012
Emo?
Recently PMS(Emo) dawn on me again..and no nothing bad happen to be nor i'm bleeding like a real PMS *lol* but it just make me feel emo out of nothing
Maybe its that i'm leaving my job and unclear of the future or is that life have been susprising boring that make me feel this way
This year begin as a married man in a CNY. Meaning i will no longer recieved Ang Bao ..and have to give ang bao after 1 yr of marriage >_< S_S fly away
I hope 2012 i can get a nice job with good pay .. happier life and also something to look forward every time of the month
^_^
Maybe its that i'm leaving my job and unclear of the future or is that life have been susprising boring that make me feel this way
This year begin as a married man in a CNY. Meaning i will no longer recieved Ang Bao ..and have to give ang bao after 1 yr of marriage >_< S_S fly away
I hope 2012 i can get a nice job with good pay .. happier life and also something to look forward every time of the month
^_^
Friday, December 30, 2011
Alive
Yoz
i'm still alive just less blogging ..been a happier year .. hoping the next yr will be fine as well
Currently working in Gucci singapore..but not really happy...will be leaving soon though hope to find a new better job
I've just came back from Taiwan..i must say the trip is quite fun considering we go with family....hope to visit Taiwan again soon ..though next year i'm going Hongkong ~!~!~!~!
currently working now...cant really blog..but just wanna say this blog is still alive and i still come back from time to time to blog... :)
i'm still alive just less blogging ..been a happier year .. hoping the next yr will be fine as well
Currently working in Gucci singapore..but not really happy...will be leaving soon though hope to find a new better job
I've just came back from Taiwan..i must say the trip is quite fun considering we go with family....hope to visit Taiwan again soon ..though next year i'm going Hongkong ~!~!~!~!
currently working now...cant really blog..but just wanna say this blog is still alive and i still come back from time to time to blog... :)
Friday, September 30, 2011
The Naggy ( Diffcult Wife )
The Difficult Wife
What is a difficult wife from a husband's perspective?
Nagging is the number one complaint of men. A difficult wife hounds her husband until he gets it. If he remains unaffected, she will resort to name calling. If unsuccessful, she will scold him like a child.
A difficult wife claims that her husband is not doing anything in the house or does not understand what is needed in the house. A difficult wife thinks a husband does not do anything right. A difficult wife accuses her husband that the reason they are in a bad situation is because of his bad decisions. A difficult wife makes her husband feel that he is in a "no-win situation". A husband feels that his difficult wife does not see the sacrifices made. He feels unappreciated. All the actions of a husband seem insignificant. She treats her husband like a child who needs to be fixed. To avoid confrontation, the husband avoids interaction with his wife. A difficult wife is ungrateful. She does not know how hard he works to provide for them.
The Reality
Is it an issue of the wife being difficult or is it because the husband lacks an understanding of his role as a leader?
No one taught a man to bring out the innate leadership skills in his family life. So, the children in the house are confused. They need clarifications from their parents on what it means to be the leader of the house. If their expectations are unclear, these sons will continue the cycle. This son will be a future husband who is withdrawn and passive.
It is typical for the husband to go home from work tired. He goes to a world of his own by watching his favorite sport. He retires to the couch. He rationalizes his need for rest. His wife realizes that this is unfair. She wanted her man to have the energy to deal with the current family issue and not ignore it.. She starts to let him know her frustrations. The husband knew it was coming and labels his wife as a "big time nagger".
Lacking in leadership skills, he feels that his wife knows the problem better than him. Thus, she can handle it better. He loses his desire to be present. He feels uncertain about the issue. He will unlikely initiate an action. He will bury himself with work and stay late in the office. He will go out with his friends and drink until the wee hours of the morning. He will go to golf games with his buddies the whole weekend. He will even take separate vacations.
The husband is actually leading himself away from his wife. If the wife puts her foot forward, the husband gets upset. He feels that the wife is preventing him from becoming the man he should be. His bitterness turns to rage. He attacks and loses control. He hurts his wife. He feels guilty then further withdraws. He feels inadequate to be a family leader. He allows his wife to lead. He stops desiring to take charge. The wife takes over. The husband complains "Geez, you do have a problem."
Wife/Gf should take note
Tackle Problems by Talking: Your husband isn't perfect and there would be times when you need to really have a frank talk with him. You don't need to feel conscious about do so, lest you be "nagging." All that you have to do is watch your tone and prepare the setting. Catch him when he isn't watching TV or distracted in any other way and can give you his full attention. Having done so, sit him across and talk to him in a gentle tone and discuss the problems that you want to put across to him and how you'd like to get it resolved. He would appreciate you for doing so. Talking is very different from nagging. I am sure you know the difference in tone and approach.
Stop Pointing out His Wrongs: We all make mistakes, don't we? Do we like others (even our partners) pointing out that to us? Of course, we don't! So, do you think your husband would appreciate the fact that you list out what he's done wrong during the day, at home or through all the years he's been with you? He wouldn't! If you feel your husband has done a wrong that he shouldn't have, as stated above, there's a better way - talking. Nagging is just a continuous burst of complaints and accusations, which would do no good to your relationship and do nothing to solve the underlying problem.
Silence is Golden: Sometimes, it pays to stay silent, even in the face of provocation. While they say that communicating is important in a relationship, I would argue that too much communication is bad, especially if you have a nagging tendency. You can be sure that much of this communication would in fact just be nagging, if you were to study yourself closely.
Take the Help of Others: Sometimes, especially in social situations, when there are your friends/relatives around, you can utilize them to address your nagging problem. If you could talk to them about helping you out, whenever you feel "naggy" by diverting your attention or bringing up another subject, that would help greatly. Men don't like being nagged, but they don't like it that much more, when they are nagged in front of others. Adopting this strategy would help maintain your respect in his eyes and avoid much agony for him, having to lose face in front of others.
Reflect / Point of View: I often find that putting myself in the other person's shoes gives me fresh new perspective and appreciation of what it is for the other person. I follow this strategy for dealing with many issues in my daily life and it really works. Knowing how your husband would feel, can make you empathize with his situation better and help react more appropriately in a specific situation.
Nagging isn't something someone is born with. It is not in one's genes. If anything, it is a habit, and as with other bad habits, you can learn to tackle it. What you need is appreciation of the problem in the first place and then being disciplined in following strategies to counter it. Stop nagging and start living and loving. There's much to gain and very little to lose!!
What is a difficult wife from a husband's perspective?
Nagging is the number one complaint of men. A difficult wife hounds her husband until he gets it. If he remains unaffected, she will resort to name calling. If unsuccessful, she will scold him like a child.
A difficult wife claims that her husband is not doing anything in the house or does not understand what is needed in the house. A difficult wife thinks a husband does not do anything right. A difficult wife accuses her husband that the reason they are in a bad situation is because of his bad decisions. A difficult wife makes her husband feel that he is in a "no-win situation". A husband feels that his difficult wife does not see the sacrifices made. He feels unappreciated. All the actions of a husband seem insignificant. She treats her husband like a child who needs to be fixed. To avoid confrontation, the husband avoids interaction with his wife. A difficult wife is ungrateful. She does not know how hard he works to provide for them.
The Reality
Is it an issue of the wife being difficult or is it because the husband lacks an understanding of his role as a leader?
No one taught a man to bring out the innate leadership skills in his family life. So, the children in the house are confused. They need clarifications from their parents on what it means to be the leader of the house. If their expectations are unclear, these sons will continue the cycle. This son will be a future husband who is withdrawn and passive.
It is typical for the husband to go home from work tired. He goes to a world of his own by watching his favorite sport. He retires to the couch. He rationalizes his need for rest. His wife realizes that this is unfair. She wanted her man to have the energy to deal with the current family issue and not ignore it.. She starts to let him know her frustrations. The husband knew it was coming and labels his wife as a "big time nagger".
Lacking in leadership skills, he feels that his wife knows the problem better than him. Thus, she can handle it better. He loses his desire to be present. He feels uncertain about the issue. He will unlikely initiate an action. He will bury himself with work and stay late in the office. He will go out with his friends and drink until the wee hours of the morning. He will go to golf games with his buddies the whole weekend. He will even take separate vacations.
The husband is actually leading himself away from his wife. If the wife puts her foot forward, the husband gets upset. He feels that the wife is preventing him from becoming the man he should be. His bitterness turns to rage. He attacks and loses control. He hurts his wife. He feels guilty then further withdraws. He feels inadequate to be a family leader. He allows his wife to lead. He stops desiring to take charge. The wife takes over. The husband complains "Geez, you do have a problem."
Wife/Gf should take note
Tackle Problems by Talking: Your husband isn't perfect and there would be times when you need to really have a frank talk with him. You don't need to feel conscious about do so, lest you be "nagging." All that you have to do is watch your tone and prepare the setting. Catch him when he isn't watching TV or distracted in any other way and can give you his full attention. Having done so, sit him across and talk to him in a gentle tone and discuss the problems that you want to put across to him and how you'd like to get it resolved. He would appreciate you for doing so. Talking is very different from nagging. I am sure you know the difference in tone and approach.
Stop Pointing out His Wrongs: We all make mistakes, don't we? Do we like others (even our partners) pointing out that to us? Of course, we don't! So, do you think your husband would appreciate the fact that you list out what he's done wrong during the day, at home or through all the years he's been with you? He wouldn't! If you feel your husband has done a wrong that he shouldn't have, as stated above, there's a better way - talking. Nagging is just a continuous burst of complaints and accusations, which would do no good to your relationship and do nothing to solve the underlying problem.
Silence is Golden: Sometimes, it pays to stay silent, even in the face of provocation. While they say that communicating is important in a relationship, I would argue that too much communication is bad, especially if you have a nagging tendency. You can be sure that much of this communication would in fact just be nagging, if you were to study yourself closely.
Take the Help of Others: Sometimes, especially in social situations, when there are your friends/relatives around, you can utilize them to address your nagging problem. If you could talk to them about helping you out, whenever you feel "naggy" by diverting your attention or bringing up another subject, that would help greatly. Men don't like being nagged, but they don't like it that much more, when they are nagged in front of others. Adopting this strategy would help maintain your respect in his eyes and avoid much agony for him, having to lose face in front of others.
Reflect / Point of View: I often find that putting myself in the other person's shoes gives me fresh new perspective and appreciation of what it is for the other person. I follow this strategy for dealing with many issues in my daily life and it really works. Knowing how your husband would feel, can make you empathize with his situation better and help react more appropriately in a specific situation.
Nagging isn't something someone is born with. It is not in one's genes. If anything, it is a habit, and as with other bad habits, you can learn to tackle it. What you need is appreciation of the problem in the first place and then being disciplined in following strategies to counter it. Stop nagging and start living and loving. There's much to gain and very little to lose!!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
wow~!
Wow..its been more then 3 month since i last blog... i must be getting lazy hehe..but well no denying it.. i have lost the motiviation to blog already. Maybe cause there's nothing new left for me to blog or rants . All have been say and maybe done...in the recent months that nothing else matters anymore.However with my final motiviation i had now.. i will attempt to update some of the stuff that happen in this 3 month and also what's gonna happen soon!
1)Tony Tan is our President.... wtf.. yea...but live with it for the next 6 yr and believe me he is going for 2nd term
2)Finally got my HDB flat and paid 2k deposit..for it :) Its near Chinese Garden. Corperation Tiara.I wonder the reason i got that last unit is because of my ranting on my blog prior GE 2011...hmmm after i rant on my blog about how f*** up Mr Mah is ..and with my personal name below... 1 week later i got the letter saying i'm selected for this special unit should i take.. o.0 . Even when paying for the 2k Deposit the lady was susprise i apply so many time and that i was select for that unit as well... hmmm... this are things that make u go hmmmm...
3)I've offically Tendered my job with "NetIQ" Its time to move on after 4 years...i submited my resignation on Aug 16...but was asked to help out till Oct 7...(shld be sept 16) but i guess my heart with Habasit was strong enuff to help Habasit thru the transition period till Oct 7 .. hopefully the new guy who replace me will be good enuff for Habasit
4)I'm going Taiwan tomorrow for 1 week~! Long lost Vacation since 2005 i think...its been really long since i went for a far away Vacation,hopefully this vacation will be a good one.. i really need a long vacation after so long...:)
There you have it.. the stuff thats on my mind for the pass few months ..nothing much..just simple life...and yeah i quitted mmorpg again... (4th times?) sighz.. really i need to really quit MMORPG i'm getting too old for it... maybe when i hit 60s ++ i can get back to mmos when i'm damm free...
1)Tony Tan is our President.... wtf.. yea...but live with it for the next 6 yr and believe me he is going for 2nd term
2)Finally got my HDB flat and paid 2k deposit..for it :) Its near Chinese Garden. Corperation Tiara.I wonder the reason i got that last unit is because of my ranting on my blog prior GE 2011...hmmm after i rant on my blog about how f*** up Mr Mah is ..and with my personal name below... 1 week later i got the letter saying i'm selected for this special unit should i take.. o.0 . Even when paying for the 2k Deposit the lady was susprise i apply so many time and that i was select for that unit as well... hmmm... this are things that make u go hmmmm...
3)I've offically Tendered my job with "NetIQ" Its time to move on after 4 years...i submited my resignation on Aug 16...but was asked to help out till Oct 7...(shld be sept 16) but i guess my heart with Habasit was strong enuff to help Habasit thru the transition period till Oct 7 .. hopefully the new guy who replace me will be good enuff for Habasit
4)I'm going Taiwan tomorrow for 1 week~! Long lost Vacation since 2005 i think...its been really long since i went for a far away Vacation,hopefully this vacation will be a good one.. i really need a long vacation after so long...:)
There you have it.. the stuff thats on my mind for the pass few months ..nothing much..just simple life...and yeah i quitted mmorpg again... (4th times?) sighz.. really i need to really quit MMORPG i'm getting too old for it... maybe when i hit 60s ++ i can get back to mmos when i'm damm free...
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Yes..i'm offically a married man
Finally i've gone thru the ROM... and yes i'm offically a married man...woah...time really flies..now i'm married with commitment..though i'm still cute ^_^"
anyway now as a married man i will try to fulfill some of the commitments need in a marriage life...
i will take it slow and hope my wife will love wad i do ;)
anyway now as a married man i will try to fulfill some of the commitments need in a marriage life...
i will take it slow and hope my wife will love wad i do ;)
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
I'm Getting Married!!
In 4 days time i will be offically Married >_<""
Stress and mixed feeling overwhelming me now..
Will i surive the ROM?
cya in 4 days time!
Stress and mixed feeling overwhelming me now..
Will i surive the ROM?
cya in 4 days time!
Friday, April 29, 2011
Today my tears drop
Yes i drop my tears in my office after reading/watching all the post /vidz and comment on the upcoming GE 2011... i never expect i would drop tears but those post those speech and those vidz really stur up my emotional feeling...
To those who are in the early 30s, the feeling is the same as the malaysian Cup when singapore win kedah 2-1 in the last match of the 1990s.. you feel PRIDE and Real Happiness when we won the malaysian cup.... but sad to say i cant say anything nice about the recent S-league + the disbanned of the S-league or Foreign Talent team??
To all Fellow Singaporean...Please.. Vote for your future and your children..dun be brain wash by promise for a better future that will magically occur in 5-10 years... and when the 5-10 years comes... they will give u reason of econmic blah blah and ask us endure with them for another 5-10 yr for Even better changes...
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH this ENDS HERE May 2011 !
To those who are in the early 30s, the feeling is the same as the malaysian Cup when singapore win kedah 2-1 in the last match of the 1990s.. you feel PRIDE and Real Happiness when we won the malaysian cup.... but sad to say i cant say anything nice about the recent S-league + the disbanned of the S-league or Foreign Talent team??
To all Fellow Singaporean...Please.. Vote for your future and your children..dun be brain wash by promise for a better future that will magically occur in 5-10 years... and when the 5-10 years comes... they will give u reason of econmic blah blah and ask us endure with them for another 5-10 yr for Even better changes...
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH this ENDS HERE May 2011 !
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
GE 2011 : Singapore ( PAP vs Opposition & Singaporean)
This is the first time i'm allowed to vote after 30 yr of living in singapore.
This also is my first election blog too
Singaporean can make a difference this year during this GE:2011 The Current Government has put too much effort on the nation growth and also the mass influx of Foreign workers is having a toll on the average income owners
Why support the Opposition? or rather why support the PAP?
If you are rich vote for the PAP why? they make you richer
If you are poor ..you should know the opposite effect..the ying and yang... if there are ppl becoming rich..some must become poorer
Am i ranting? YES i am!
Why?
How is like to be an "Average income earner who earn just slightly above 2k" to able to survice in Singapore?
-- Housing.. Mr Mah promises affordable housing to every singaporean.. Fine! ok i EVEN accept that EXPENSIVE price as affordable.. a 4 room flat for 265k no reno .. 30 yr loan.. but WTF man.. I BTO 5 TIME and all 5 TIME i dun even get a fucking queue except one out of 5 time i got a 600 que number. You promise "affordable" housing and you never say anything about quanity.To be honest. Lets look at this in this format .
1)Live within Parent +1 or +2 more ballot chance
2)Newly wed - +2 or 3 more ballot chance
3)+1 chance for every failure
First try with 4 vote fail
second try with 5 vote fail
Third try with 6 vote fail
Fourth try with 7 vote fail but with que number of 600++ ( slot avaliable 200+)
Fifth try with 8 vote fail
So unless i'm mistaken. This sound right??.First you influx the entire nation with cheap labours claiming they help us built roads and building..fine i'm ok with that.. then those "skilled one keep coming one by one" u say we need foreign skill workers to teach us ok.. fine.. then before you know it... secondary sch are fill with foreign teachers... hawker centers ....bascially the service sector.. then what happen? Our Customer service level DROPPED. You blame us (native singaporean) for this problem. Those Foreign workers and skilled workers need place to stay so they start buying /renting our HDB and condos and especially for those richer one.. they can pay up to 30-40% more for a furnish HDB/condos.. this is what fucking raise our HDB price...
During the early 2000s..no one really bothers.. Roads are not that congested.. MRT are decent..Walkpass are clean and well maintain..Singaporeans are contented and happy.HDB are cheap.. 3room 170k , 4room 210k 5room 270k in the early 2000s
Fast forward to 2011, MRT are full to the brim, and sometime u can hardly differnciate if they are singaporean or FT..(Try Joo koon Mrt ).Roads are always jam..Walkpass are fill with litters or ppl sitting near there to eat.People are not so happy now espcially the heartlanders...
Sometime i think to myself..is Singapore the best place to be ..i will still say Yes...
Singapore is safe
Singapore food are nice
beside that i can't really find anything better to say liao. Everything is so expensive here... and i refuse to believe our ministers are pay millions anually just because they can "approve/disapprove" on a piece of paper and us citizen will have to obey if not we pay and pay to their pocket.1 minister pay can help 200-300 needy elderly... yet they put those donation on MRT/Bus to ask us average singaporean to help out.. those fucking rich ministers and businessman no need to lay a fucking hand since you dun see advertisement/donation asking u to donate on the road because all of them are fucking driving.YOG can overspend million..those money can help out those needy for at least 5 years yet he can spend it all in a heartbeat and smile...seriously....without someone to check/oversee what they are doing bascially i can sum it up
A : I devise a plan that can help us get richer and also keep us in the limelight
A's superior: Oh good how u intend to go about doing that
A : Host YOG , connect with the youngsters ,spend money making it like a super major event , invite singers and actor from diff countries. let them know we care for our future generation since GE is just around the corners!
A's superior: Excellent plan! how much will it cost us?
A : Actually alot ..but its a win win situation for us *smile*
A's superior : hmm ok i approve of it!
If there is a B inside the chat..things might have change...
A : I devise a plan that can help us get richer and also keep us in the limelight
B : Lets hear it
A's superior: Oh good how u intend to go about doing that
A : Host YOG , connect with the youngsters ,spend money making it like a super major event , invite singers and actor from diff countries. let them know we care for our future generation since GE is just around the corners!
A's superior: Excellent plan! how much will it cost us?
B: This sound really expensive, the money can be used to further our healthcare,elderly
A:Yeah but this will provide us the publicity we need
A's Superior : hmm i have to think about it
B : We should really consider the cost to host such event.This will be very costly ppl might be against it we should do more research first..
A'sSuperior : Ok lets discuss this again next time
See... if there's someone there to give a different opinion ..things would have change.. and IMAGINE if B is a superior...things will be even different... We need 2 government ..not just one... even a coin have both side..... 2011 is the time of change with so many countries having radicial changes in their government. So why shouldnt Singapore change as well?
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Foot note : to be honest.. i gain nothing yet lose alot from their rules and i will definately wanted changes...even if its a gamble i'm willing to give all for this gamble... Changes be it good or bad are better then the current situation that i'm going thru...
If ur a PAP who are watching this blog let it be known that you lost my first ever vote just because of the things u promises but never delievered
1)Cheap avaliable housing - Bullshit 5 BTO already still cannot get + i am going to slave 30 yr to pay for the house and total empty of my CPF.. you call that cheap avaliable housing _|_ u
2)Good Transportation - Try taking MRT to work from jurong east and tell me if thats good..sometime we need to wait 2-3 MRT before we can even Squeeze in..and yes i see u built one more line..but unfortunately our MRT are broking down every month and their reply is always due to a train fault... i guess most singaporean who take MRT can relate to that!
3)Housing/lift Upgrade project - Nice to listen but some ppl dunno is you need to pay for it! 800+ more if u wan a life to stop at every floor.. imagine the other hidden cost for other upgrade project...and yes u say u can vote no..but if u garner 75% yes u still go ahead...there is no subsise for this kind of bullcrap
4)cheap affordable medicial bills via medisavee - The 8 dollar bill by that minister is a farking lie.If you can earn alot of $$. Surely your medisave acc will be big as well as with your CPF and whatever preimun insurance u sign up..hence you can get those reduction. If you are poor... try having 8 dollar bill.. alot of such stuff is case by case..yet YOU make it seems everyone can do that... sure if we earn more then 10k a month
There are many more points..but this blog is getting too lengthy..hence i will end it here.. I hope Opposition can take up 10-15 seat in this general election i will be celebrating if this happen
From a truely disgrunted ranting 30 yr old guy who after 5 BTO still cant get his flat
This also is my first election blog too
Singaporean can make a difference this year during this GE:2011 The Current Government has put too much effort on the nation growth and also the mass influx of Foreign workers is having a toll on the average income owners
Why support the Opposition? or rather why support the PAP?
If you are rich vote for the PAP why? they make you richer
If you are poor ..you should know the opposite effect..the ying and yang... if there are ppl becoming rich..some must become poorer
Am i ranting? YES i am!
Why?
How is like to be an "Average income earner who earn just slightly above 2k" to able to survice in Singapore?
-- Housing.. Mr Mah promises affordable housing to every singaporean.. Fine! ok i EVEN accept that EXPENSIVE price as affordable.. a 4 room flat for 265k no reno .. 30 yr loan.. but WTF man.. I BTO 5 TIME and all 5 TIME i dun even get a fucking queue except one out of 5 time i got a 600 que number. You promise "affordable" housing and you never say anything about quanity.To be honest. Lets look at this in this format .
1)Live within Parent +1 or +2 more ballot chance
2)Newly wed - +2 or 3 more ballot chance
3)+1 chance for every failure
First try with 4 vote fail
second try with 5 vote fail
Third try with 6 vote fail
Fourth try with 7 vote fail but with que number of 600++ ( slot avaliable 200+)
Fifth try with 8 vote fail
So unless i'm mistaken. This sound right??.First you influx the entire nation with cheap labours claiming they help us built roads and building..fine i'm ok with that.. then those "skilled one keep coming one by one" u say we need foreign skill workers to teach us ok.. fine.. then before you know it... secondary sch are fill with foreign teachers... hawker centers ....bascially the service sector.. then what happen? Our Customer service level DROPPED. You blame us (native singaporean) for this problem. Those Foreign workers and skilled workers need place to stay so they start buying /renting our HDB and condos and especially for those richer one.. they can pay up to 30-40% more for a furnish HDB/condos.. this is what fucking raise our HDB price...
During the early 2000s..no one really bothers.. Roads are not that congested.. MRT are decent..Walkpass are clean and well maintain..Singaporeans are contented and happy.HDB are cheap.. 3room 170k , 4room 210k 5room 270k in the early 2000s
Fast forward to 2011, MRT are full to the brim, and sometime u can hardly differnciate if they are singaporean or FT..(Try Joo koon Mrt ).Roads are always jam..Walkpass are fill with litters or ppl sitting near there to eat.People are not so happy now espcially the heartlanders...
Sometime i think to myself..is Singapore the best place to be ..i will still say Yes...
Singapore is safe
Singapore food are nice
beside that i can't really find anything better to say liao. Everything is so expensive here... and i refuse to believe our ministers are pay millions anually just because they can "approve/disapprove" on a piece of paper and us citizen will have to obey if not we pay and pay to their pocket.1 minister pay can help 200-300 needy elderly... yet they put those donation on MRT/Bus to ask us average singaporean to help out.. those fucking rich ministers and businessman no need to lay a fucking hand since you dun see advertisement/donation asking u to donate on the road because all of them are fucking driving.YOG can overspend million..those money can help out those needy for at least 5 years yet he can spend it all in a heartbeat and smile...seriously....without someone to check/oversee what they are doing bascially i can sum it up
A : I devise a plan that can help us get richer and also keep us in the limelight
A's superior: Oh good how u intend to go about doing that
A : Host YOG , connect with the youngsters ,spend money making it like a super major event , invite singers and actor from diff countries. let them know we care for our future generation since GE is just around the corners!
A's superior: Excellent plan! how much will it cost us?
A : Actually alot ..but its a win win situation for us *smile*
A's superior : hmm ok i approve of it!
If there is a B inside the chat..things might have change...
A : I devise a plan that can help us get richer and also keep us in the limelight
B : Lets hear it
A's superior: Oh good how u intend to go about doing that
A : Host YOG , connect with the youngsters ,spend money making it like a super major event , invite singers and actor from diff countries. let them know we care for our future generation since GE is just around the corners!
A's superior: Excellent plan! how much will it cost us?
B: This sound really expensive, the money can be used to further our healthcare,elderly
A:Yeah but this will provide us the publicity we need
A's Superior : hmm i have to think about it
B : We should really consider the cost to host such event.This will be very costly ppl might be against it we should do more research first..
A'sSuperior : Ok lets discuss this again next time
See... if there's someone there to give a different opinion ..things would have change.. and IMAGINE if B is a superior...things will be even different... We need 2 government ..not just one... even a coin have both side..... 2011 is the time of change with so many countries having radicial changes in their government. So why shouldnt Singapore change as well?
------------------------
Foot note : to be honest.. i gain nothing yet lose alot from their rules and i will definately wanted changes...even if its a gamble i'm willing to give all for this gamble... Changes be it good or bad are better then the current situation that i'm going thru...
If ur a PAP who are watching this blog let it be known that you lost my first ever vote just because of the things u promises but never delievered
1)Cheap avaliable housing - Bullshit 5 BTO already still cannot get + i am going to slave 30 yr to pay for the house and total empty of my CPF.. you call that cheap avaliable housing _|_ u
2)Good Transportation - Try taking MRT to work from jurong east and tell me if thats good..sometime we need to wait 2-3 MRT before we can even Squeeze in..and yes i see u built one more line..but unfortunately our MRT are broking down every month and their reply is always due to a train fault... i guess most singaporean who take MRT can relate to that!
3)Housing/lift Upgrade project - Nice to listen but some ppl dunno is you need to pay for it! 800+ more if u wan a life to stop at every floor.. imagine the other hidden cost for other upgrade project...and yes u say u can vote no..but if u garner 75% yes u still go ahead...there is no subsise for this kind of bullcrap
4)cheap affordable medicial bills via medisavee - The 8 dollar bill by that minister is a farking lie.If you can earn alot of $$. Surely your medisave acc will be big as well as with your CPF and whatever preimun insurance u sign up..hence you can get those reduction. If you are poor... try having 8 dollar bill.. alot of such stuff is case by case..yet YOU make it seems everyone can do that... sure if we earn more then 10k a month
There are many more points..but this blog is getting too lengthy..hence i will end it here.. I hope Opposition can take up 10-15 seat in this general election i will be celebrating if this happen
From a truely disgrunted ranting 30 yr old guy who after 5 BTO still cant get his flat
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
WOW its that long?
Yeah its that long since i blog..bascially there is nothing else to post..
Life is normal at best... hope there's a new vacation soon
I dun mind going Genting if i am going with a bunch of ppl and i certainly dun mind bintan/batam as well if there's one a short weekend getaway is fine with me
Currently playing Rift online for 1 month ++ and yeah its taking alot of my time plus a 1 week plus fever/flu/cough isnt helping either
And yes its offical My ROM will be on June 5 .. :) finally i'm getting Married lol.... will post more when the time comes ^_^
Life is normal at best... hope there's a new vacation soon
I dun mind going Genting if i am going with a bunch of ppl and i certainly dun mind bintan/batam as well if there's one a short weekend getaway is fine with me
Currently playing Rift online for 1 month ++ and yeah its taking alot of my time plus a 1 week plus fever/flu/cough isnt helping either
And yes its offical My ROM will be on June 5 .. :) finally i'm getting Married lol.... will post more when the time comes ^_^
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